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Dating a man with borderline personality

He is often featured on national news media, as a keynote speaker for professional conferences, and periodically offers his Midas Complex workshops around the country.

He lives in Topanga Canyon, California with his wife and two children.

Bob is actually more of a multi-phobic (fictional) person but also displays that clingy, boundary violating, borderline quality that drives some people, particularly his narcissistic therapists, nuts. Aaron Kipnis is a licensed clinical psychologist with a private practice in Santa Monica, California.

So, the person with an overflowing well, the one with BP Disorder or traits, does not have to feel anxious about causing floods.

It does not feel good for the person with NPD to be numb inside, so all that feeling the person with BPD provides is like nourishment for the person with NPD—it allows him (or her) to feel “something”—someone else’s intense affect.

He told me he was very well, with a full practice of clients who were mostly people with BPD.

This is somewhat unheard of—in fact, I was shocked, initially.

There may be the potentially unnerving suicidality and phone calls at all hours.

But my former student had about thirty clients with BPD!

Well, all that water flowing out of the borderline’s well feels wonderful to the arid inner world of the narcissist.

And because the NPD desert is so dry, the person with BPD seldom floods it the way it would a person with normal limits of absorption.

A common and very confusing failure pattern of relationship instability is described in this article.

A relationship can present with this characteristic failure pattern over time.

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