Dating divorced men over 40
They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner.Yes they do want you to help raise their kids and do it all over again. If you have money, well that just makes you more attractive. Women in their 50’s – these women are your age and there are many available in this group.
From my experience there are few men who are looking to date their contemporaries.
The thrill and excitement of a younger woman is so compelling. Someone who will appreciate what my age and wisdom brings to the partnership.
Those rare gems who value women with age and experience are just that – rare! I am happier than I have ever been and what I truly have learned is that I don’t need a man to make me complete.
I’m a 42 year old single mom who is very attractive (I look about 7 years younger), fun, has a great smile and laugh (and does both a LOT), emotionally stable, and not looking to race to the altar.
Rather they will be someone who will have realistic expectations of you and be accepting of who you are at this time of your life.
They will want to grow old with you and have an age appropriate relationship with you.
Let’s face it, meeting men is hard, especially if you are over 40. Your circle of friends is either the same it’s been for years, or post-divorce you are now creating new friendships. For those of you in your 40s or 50s who are recently divorced, widowed, or just eager to re-partner, dating again can be daunting.
Perhaps it’s been a while since you’ve been “on the market”.
And the most surprising phenomenon that I’ve witnessed in this pool of men is that being a pretty, happy, vivacious “cool chick” is a big negative strike against me.
I’m amazed at how many of them fall for the psycho Bs and drama queens.